World AIDS Day 2008 - FLASHBACK!...and today.

Eve van Grafhorst

One can still put an unforgettable Australian face on World AIDS Day today (December 1), even after her death 15 years ago. The face is that of Eve van Grafhorst, the first Australian schoolgirl to be infected by HIV through a blood transfusion....and who inspired the establishment of The Australian AIDS Fund Incorporated, Australia's smallest AIDS-care agency, in the mid 1980's.

This week The Australian AIDS Fund Incorporated arranged for Eve's mother, Gloria, to appear on TVNZ's "Good Morning" television show to commemorate World AIDS Day, and to share some of her thoughts and hopes...and those of Eve's brothers and sisters...with us too as a special message.

 

Eve's Mum, Gloria, has sent us the following message and photos to mark World AIDS Day 2008.

The two photos show Gloria pictured with Dana, Eve's oldest sister, at the internment of Eve's ashes at the Rudolf Steiner School in Hastings, New Zealand, in October 2008, and the site where Eve's ashes have been placed in the garden. This is where  Eve and Dana attended school together.The remembrance plot overlooks the playground and is very near the ashes of her friend Rupert whom she married in her fantasy wedding.

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Gloria writes:

"Eve's legacy and that of her family is for everyone to stay strong and to support one and other, not to be afraid and stand up for what you believe in.

"Those living with the virus are to be treated with dignity and respect and discrimination should always be resisted."

The following quotations summarise all of the above:-

 

  1. "The most powerful thing you can do to change the world,
    is to change your own beliefs about the nature of life, people,reality, to something more positive....and begin to act accordingly."
    Author:  Shakti Gawain



  2. "Be afraid of nothing-you have within you all wisdom, all power,all strength,and all understanding."

 

Author:  Eilleen Caddy

 

Historical Notes :

The Australian AIDS Fund Incorporated, a registered not-for-profit charity, came into being in the mid-1980's as a direct consequence of the plight of the then New South Wales toddler, Eve van Grafhorst, who was forced, along with her family, to flee to New Zealand for sanctuary when her own coastal community at Gosford decided it couldn't, and wouldn't, cope with having an HIV-infected child in its midst and banned her from a local pre-school.

Eve died in New Zealand in 1993 at the age of 11, acknowledged on both sides of the Tasman as an HIV activist heroine.

The appalling treatment meted out to Eve and her family, mirrored in so many fearful nations of the world still, through  hatefulness, discrimination, stigma, verbal and physical abuse has been rightly described as one of the darkest pages in Australia's HIV history.

Determined that this candle of hope shouldn't be blown out, The Australian AIDS Fund Incorporated keeps the memory of her bravery and example both alight and alive through its works with men, women and children struggling to live with HIV/AIDS in different parts of the world...as well as inside Australia....so that others might come to know of her story and learn from the sorrow and the courage within it. The idea of a Schools AIDS Day is one such initiative in Victoria...now run by the Catholic Education Office In Melbourne.

 

 

Schools AIDS Day

Eve Van Grafhorst

Schools AIDS Day is an invitation for school children to think about others struggling to live with HIV/AIDS by focussing on what happened to Australian schoolgirl - Eve Van Grafhorst - who died from AIDS when she was just 11 years of age. Eve van Grafhorst

Left: Flight Attendant Leeanne Langridge and First Officer John Gray with Air New Zealand National's youngest flight attendant, Eve van Grafhorst.

Message From A Princess

To mark Eve's 21st birthday, her mother Gloria has released a treasured letter she received from the Princess of Wales.

Young heroes & heroines

There have been some important rainbows that have shone out in the global history of HIV/AIDS, young boys and girls who've not only endured the ravages of the disease and lost their young lives in the process but whose bravery and courage have helped governments to alter course...to intervene...and also tackle stigma and discrimination much more vigorously.

* Ryan White a young American boy was one such example, who finally numbered 5 American Presidents among his friends.
For his story Click Here

* Eve van Grafhorst the first Australian girl to be infected by HIV via a blood transfusion is another example, fighting hysteria and apprehension with laughter and hugs (the inspiration for the establishment of our own organisation).

* Nkosi Johnson the young South African hero who galvanised the world by his moving global appeal for tolerance before his life slipped away as well. For a glimpse into Nkosi's inspirational life and what's since grown out of it, Click Here

 

Spotlight now on India

There are others too, not in the spotlight, who've added their strength to the cause.

Now, in India, there's the present case of Bency(7) and her brother Benson (5) who live in Kerala State. Both lost their parents to AIDS and had been trying to join a school for the past 2 years!

Sept 30, 2003 - Great News for India's HIV infected children!

Benson and Bency in from the cold, becoming faces of India's battle against stigma and discrimination. Click Here for the story

APJ. Abdul Kalam - President of India
APJ. Abdul Kalam
President of India

 

Within a few days of receiving our request, President Kalam kindly sent us this photograph of himself with the children and their grandfather, for which we are very grateful. It sends a powerful message as to how stigma on a national scale may be alleviated by so boldly involving such targetted children in HIV/AIDS Awareness campaigns.

We commend the President's action and the courage of those children and their families to all nations struggling to cope with discrimination which is so much responsible for the ongoing global spread of the disease.

 

The Australian AIDS Fund has sent special messages to the President of India and India's Union Minister for Health - Click Here to read them

For the history of our earlier involvement - Click Here

 

 

 

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